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Am a half breed of Borneo island. A little bit of Sarawak and Sabah blood. A proud daughter of an Iban father and Malay Brunei mother. Seeking happiness in my own way. A friendly lady yet sometime can be extreme 'cili padi'... am comfortable being me, no one else.

Monday, September 19, 2016

The kind of man that I married to

by RihanNa (bukan Nama Sebenar)

I can't sleep so I thought of posting this up. I seldom brag about it but I am actually proud of it.

When I first decided to get married with this man, I didn't expect my life would be that colorful knowing that this man that I knew is a very quiet and mysterious type.

But God knows better. I couldn't wish for a better husband. He is the one that I needed. That meant for me.

Lately when we are together, be it when he come to Miri to visit me or me going back to Bintulu for long holiday, he will take his phone whenever he got chances and take photos of us.

Even if I look like a seal or sea lion, he would say, baby cantik. And I would reply,  no la, am just ordinary.

To be honest the photos of us that he took, the only one look nice and handsome is him. I would look like dugong. Doesn't matter what pose I did, eating, lying down, watching movie (most of the time is running man) he will snap 'em silently.

When he got caught I ask, why you took so many photos of me look like that? And he will reply 'so I can look at them every time I misses you'.

Sweet or not? Like sugar honey coated caramel popcorn. Lol.

Now that I am pregnant, always ask me whether am hungry or not. Whether I am ok or not.

And if I am going back to Bintulu, he will come to Miri first by bus, and accompany me back to Bintulu. And if  am going back to Miri he will do the same thing.

When I say don't do those kinda stuff to me, treat me like queen and princess and he will be like, 'no, I must do these, because you are my wife'. Stubborn in his way.

This is the kind of man that I am married to. Thank you Allah.

Monday, August 8, 2016

Surprise Birthday present ever for Hubby

by RihanNa (bukan Nama Sebenar)

Mind you,  i just came back from Zimbabwe on Tue (2nd Aug) and it was super super hectic schedule when i was there. Almost everyday we went back at night time and departing very early in the morning. i have to sleep at Dubai  airport for one night. I have to tell you,  i hate Dubai airport. It never sleeps.

Coming back i have to spent one more night at KL before departing back to Miri. Hectic it is. Very the.

So,  on the 6th of Aug,  my beloved husband celebrated his 32nd birthday.  And I was 2 weeks late for my period.

We did plan to check on 6th Aug morning. he came to Miri that night using bus. And i went to fetch him. Earlier that day,  i went to pharmacy after work and bought 2 pregnancy test cassette. And i also changed my gas since i have run out of it.

I carried and empty tong and after i changed them at retail store,  i went back home and carry back inside the house. (Iklan)

So on the next morning,  before i shower i took my urine and test. Put it aside and shower. I didnt see the result immediately.

Done with my shower,  i pray fajr and waited for my husband to finish his shower.

He came out from the toilet and asked me, what is the result? I said i havent checked. I waited for you. i wanted us to see it together. And he grabbed the test cassette and smile. And look at the result behind the packet and his smiles getting wider. I asked, is it two line or one line?' He showed me but i can't  see it clearly as i didnt wear my spec. So i said one line is it? Itsokay.

He said no la. Its 2. And i was like  REALLY??????... and then he said. I am so happy baby. This is the best birthday present ever! ever!  Thank you baby. I cried that morning. I was happy myself. The next day we went to Clinic to check how old is our baby now. Apparently it is now in it's 6 weeks.

Welcome to the world lil one. In this particular week,  it is as big as sweet peas.

Alhamdulillah for this. Thank you allah for hearing our prayer. Thank you Allah for this rizki.